Three Tips to Start a Conversation with a Girl

by Steve on September 15, 2010

3 Ways to Approach Girls

If there is a girl you like but you just don’t know how to go about asking her out or just chatting her up, it’s important that you learn quickly. Girls won’t wait around forever, which is why you have to make your move as soon as possible.

At first it doesn’t really matter what you say, as long as she knows you are taking an interest in her. Maybe start by opening up with a compliment on what she is wearing that particular day. Simply introducing yourself is a good idea, but you should have at least some idea of where the conversation is going to go from there.

Starting up a conversation with a girl and keeping it going requires confidence, so you have to make sure that you check yourself before going up to her. Practice in your bathroom mirror at home if you have to, but just be ready when the time comes.

Depending on where you both are, it is important to implement the use of crutches in your conversation. For example, if you are in school together and both have the same class, you might want to use that as a way to start the conversation or at least keep it going.

Try to be creative when it comes to starting a conversation. Chances are if you talk about the same boring things that a lot of guys who try to talk to girls do, you won’t get very far. It’s a good idea to steer the conversation towards going out once you have it going though, because that will be your main goal.

A lot of guys forget the basics of starting a conversation, such as just saying “Hi, my name is…” and go from there. Girls appreciate guys who are straightforward and assertive, so make sure you have that down before speaking a word to a girl that you like.

Sometimes it is easier to use one of these ways to start a conversation with a girl.  In that article, you will find a list of pua openers you can use.  These have been tested, are are known to work in bar and club type environments.

Over all, if you follow these three tips to start a conversation with a girl, you’ll find that it is quite easy to not only start the conversation, but to keep the conversation going.

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