Best Ways to Get a Conversation Started with a Girl

by Steve on September 22, 2010

If you see a girl that you find attractive, you might just want to give her the right look. Smiling for all of three seconds or so is enough to let her know how you feel. Sometimes guys are surprised that when they do this, the girl actually comes over and starts talking to them. Make sure that you just give a nice smile instead of winking, because that is cheesy and most girls won’t respond to it well. If there is something about the girl that you find particularly attractive or interesting, you might want to consider asking her more about it. This will show her that you have taken an interest and want to know as much about her as possible.

Just saying something like “Hey how are you doing today?” when passing by at work or school can be a great way to get things started. Make sure to give a nice genuine smile so she knows that you are interested in her. The problem most guys have with starting a conversation is that they aren’t confident enough when talking to girls, or sometimes they are a little too confident and it comes off as being cocky. You don’t want to make it seem like you have a big ego, but you also want her to know that you feel good about yourself in every way.

Telling a girl how nice she likes in a certain outfit can be a good way to break the ice as well. Girls always love being praised for their appearance, which is why they spend so much time on it. They appreciate it when a guy stops and takes the time to notice something other than just her body. Remember that when you are first starting a conversation with a girl, it doesn’t have to be “Can I have your number?” or “Do you want to go out with me?” Most girls don’t like guys who are too straightforward, so play it cool and make sure you are subtle yet clear about how you feel.

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