3 Tips for Getting a Conversation Started

by Steve on September 29, 2010

Every guy wants to know how to get a conversation started with a girl they like. Despite what you may think, it’s not really that difficult. You just have to know how to approach it, and then it will be easy going from there.

Have Confidence

Whatever you do, don’t show any signs of hesitation or self-consciousness. There is a difference between being confident and egotistical though, so make sure that you don’t come off as being cocky. Keep in mind that your goal is to make her interested in you,  so make sure you don’t seem like you are full of yourself.

Think About Something to Talk About Before Approaching Her

While some guys are good at starting a conversation from nothing, most people need to think of something beforehand. This will help to keep the conversation going once you get it started. If you really think about it, finding just one thing to talk about isn’t that difficult. It could be something she is wearing, a class you are taking together, or something about work if you are employed at the same place.

Make Eye Contact

When you are approaching a girl you like to start a conversation, remember to make eye contact with her. This will let her know that you are attracted to her. It also shows that you are interested and not at all shy. You don’t want to keep staring consistently, but make sure you aren’t constantly looking down at the floor or away from her, because those are definitely signs of low self-esteem. You want her to think that you are confident and have your act together, so always make eye contact when you are speaking directly to her. She will appreciate this and you might be surprised just how far it gets you.

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